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Hey besties,

It has been very busy for me lately but I’m doing great. I hope y’all have been staying hydrated, getting rest and living life in whatever that means for you.


Anyway, I’ve made some acquaintances & formed some new connections recently.

I’ve also let go of others, I’ve held on to for longer than I should have or we went our separate ways. I mentioned before I have no problem detaching myself from ppl but it’s not always easy. I think my pride & ego lowkey help me with that a lot more than I’d like to admit. Which is a good and bad thing lol


I went on a date or two which was fun. I was taken out to a winery & to an art museum & the park. For another date, someone cooked me a full course meal with homemade drinks & we watched a scary movie. I think one thing that annoys me is the entitlement I deal with occasionally. If I say I’m not looking for nothing serious & that’s mutual, I think it’s that simple. If emotions or something develops outside that, it’s fine to talk about it. But most of the time,that doesn’t change whatever the dynamic is because it’s hard for me to go outside those boundaries once I’ve set for that for the relationship. I had to figure out it’s the best way to be after learning the hard way when I was 18 to in my early 20s, trust me💀So I try to be open about how I am & my intentions now.


There’s times I’ve talked to ppl for short periods of time. Sometimes as little as 2 weeks or less & while they talk/date multiple people outside of me. There always seems to be a tone of passive aggressive energy in the way they act when I also do the same. Which I find really annoying. I just reflect what energy I’m given. I won’t act like there aren’t other things that influence how I feel or how things play out. Taking initiative & the lead also is something I like. I’m usually direct when I want something with someone. So someone who knows what they want is like a breath of fresh air to me. I’m moving on the 17th of May & so I’m probably going to take a break from all the swiping & casual dating for now.



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“Studying The 🐦s & The 🐝s”


This is a little embarrassing to talk about but it’s the naughty corner so here we are. I can openly say I’m a switch. That doesn’t take away from the fact I LOVE to please. when I was younger I studied more about body anatomy & how I can stimulate myself & my partner & accommodate accordingly to how they like. But I really like the science behind it too honestly. I feel like I put a lot into a person when I’m with someone. which why I can’t sleep or be physical with everyone I date or go on dates with.


It’s a mental thing that has to pull me in even for something casual. You could be physically attractive or have something super desirable about you & if we aren’t clicking mentally I just can’t go there even if I want to. It’s frustrating because my mind & body are in tuned with each other so it makes it harder for me to find someone physically sometimes. Masturbation is definitely something I appreciate because it helps me not be co dependent on others. I get my check ups and blood tested done consistently for my physical & sexual health. It’s really important to me. I was put in groups as a pre teen where they inform you about STDs & all that. Man, I’m 26 & still have the images in bedded in my head to this day.



I like messing with aphrodisiacs or experimenting generally. I think it’s important to have someone who understands your sexual boundaries & is willing to explore with you too. It makes sex & your relationship with sex way more fun & healthy. Nothing is wrong with how many ppl you sleep with, what you’re into or who you don’t sleep with. As long as there’s mutual consent & you’re being responsible, have fun whatever. Your body your choice✊🏼no matter who you are, is what I always say.

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Hey besties💕

Life has been kinda busy and so I don’t have a lot of time for the page so I’ll update when I can. I love you 💕

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